Lincoln on Leadership – Leniency

October 12th, 2011

Just a few observations and quotes from the book on leadership I’m reading. It’s been well documented that President Lincoln granted more pardons than any president had before him – or has since. He seemed to have virtually no feelings of hate, vindictiveness, or malice. Many people of his day, in fact, thought his tendency toward leniency was overdone. Here’s a hilarious example.

Even the president’s two sons, Willie and Tad, were aware of their father’s frequent pardons. Having sentenced their doll soldier to death as punishment for sleeping on guard duty, they obtained mercy from their father. “The doll Jack is pardoned. By order of the President,” he commanded on Executive Mansion stationery, signing it just as he signed all of his pardons: A. Lincoln.

On a much more serious note, here’s another example.

Gen. William Tecumseh Sherman, who already knew that it was “very hard for the President to hang spies,” once asked Lincoln explicitly whether he wanted Jefferson Davis captured or allowed to escape. Lincoln replied:I’ll tell you, General, what I think of taking Jeff Davis. Out in Illinois there was an old temperance lecturer who was very strict in the doctrine and practice of total abstinence. One day, after a long ride in the hot sun, he stopped at the house of a friend, who proposed making him a lemonade. When the friend asked if he wouldn’t like a drop of something stronger in the drink, he replied that he couldn’t think of it. “I’m opposed to it on principle,” he said. “But,” he added with a longing glance at the bottle that stood conveniently at hand, “if you could manage to put in a drop unbeknownst to me, I guess it wouldn’t hurt me much.” Now, General, I am bound to oppose the escape of Jeff Davis; but if you could manage to let him slip out unbeknownst-like, I guess it wouldn’t hurt me much.

Here are several more direct quotes from the chapter.

“Pettiness, spite, and vengeance are emotional reactions considered to be beneath the dignity of a leader. Followers expect their leaders to rise above such demeaning and degrading activity.”

“Whenever he had doubts, and there must have been many, he fell back on the foundation of his personality: honesty, integrity, compassion, and mercy.”

“Is there a lesson to be learned here? It is, in part, that by being compassionate and kind rather than malicious or vengeful, a leader will make fewer enemies for himself and his organization and will thereby create more supporters, more dedicated “soldiers” to aid in the overall corporate mission.”

“Obviously, if people, whether business associates or subordinates, realize that a leader is not given to spite and pettiness, they will be more willing to openly seek him out. This will, in turn, make the leader more effective.”

“Invariably an organization takes on the personality of its top leader, providing that individual is in touch with the members of the organization. If the leader is petty, the subordinates will be petty. But if the leader is encouraging, optimistic, and courteous, then the vast majority of the workers in the organization will be as well.”

“What I deal with is too vast for malicious dealing.”

The chapter is concluded with this observation and suggestion.

“In general, a lack of malice on the part of a leader – genuine caring – inspires trust among subordinates and fosters innovative thinking. It also keeps followers from being terrified, allowing them to be themselves. Contemporary leaders should adopt Lincoln’s style and “pardon” mistakes as opposed to chewing out subordinates.

This was from chapter 5, “Never Act Out of Vengeance or Spite”.

Composing a Career and Life

September 21st, 2011

An interesting talk to MIT students by Linda Mason, who co-founded Bright Horizons and also co-founded Horizons for Homeless Children. She has also written a book, “The Working Mother’s Guide to Life: Strategies, Secrets, and Solutions“.

Watch the full presentation here: Composing a Career and Life

Main points from the presentation:
1. Invest in your community here (make friends, build connections, consider your classmates your partners throughout your life)
2. Sometimes it’s important to leap before you look
3. Question traditional and standard ways of operating
4. Entrepreneur: Do your homework well and be very stubborn
5. Don’t start a business and a family at the same time
6. Nietzsche: What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger (a helpful quote to keep in mind when times are tough)
7. Keep your passions alive (integrate them part or full time into your life)

Concluding comments: Follow your heart and stay in touch with who you are and be open to opportunities and work hard

30 Useful Web Apps

February 26th, 2010

Maximum PC has compiled a list of 30 useful web apps, some of which are definitely worth checking out. Here’s the link to the list, 30 Useful (and Unknown) Web Apps You Need to Bookmark.

The Master List of Free Online College Courses

April 28th, 2009

This is the most comprehensive and up-to-date collection of free online college classes available to the general public. We’ll be updating this list frequently, so please bookmark it for future reference and let us know about any broken links or free online courses we’ve missed.

Areas of studies include:

  • General Collections
  • Math and Science
  • History
  • Arts and Humanities
  • Business and Economics

Master List

Introduction to Information Retrieval

March 24th, 2009

This book is available for free download from this site.

The book aims to provide a modern approach to information retrieval from a computer science perspective. It is based on a course we have been teaching in various forms at Stanford University and at the University of Stuttgart.

80 Useful Ajax Solutions

February 26th, 2009

80 AJAX solutions that are excellent and usefull from delimitdesign.com

Latest useful collections of resources for designers, students, programmers

January 22nd, 2009

12 Useful Web Tools for Designers – http://sixrevisions.com/graphics-design/12-useful-web-tools-for-designers/

13 Free Web Apps To Simplify Designer’s Work Life – http://www.smashingapps.com/2009/01/19/13-free-web-apps-to-simplify-designers-work-life.html

10 Online Learning Tools for Students – http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/handy-tools-for-students/

50 Extremely Useful PHP Tools – http://www.smashingmagazine.com/2009/01/20/50-extremely-useful-php-tools/

The Power of WordPress and jQuery: 25+ Useful Plugins & Tutorials – http://www.noupe.com/jquery/the-power-of-wordpress-and-jquery-30-useful-plugins-tutorials.html

30 Useful Open Source Apps for Web Designers – http://sixrevisions.com/tools/30-useful-open-source-apps-for-web-designers

22 Most Used Free Fonts By Professional Designers – http://www.instantshift.com/2008/10/23/22-most-used-free-fonts-by-professional-designers/

20 Useful Resources for Learning about CSS3 – http://sixrevisions.com/css/20-useful-resources-for-learning-about-css3/

The “Top 10″ and other Technological slideshows from ChannellWeb

January 16th, 2009

These slide shows from ChannellWeb present various technological topics in a very concise manner, usually 10 slides explaining/outlining the most important features of a product or technology…

Some examples,

The 10 Coolest Notebooks of 2008
The 10 Coolest Netbooks of 2008
The 10 Coolest Open Source Products Of 2008
Google Apps Vs. Microsoft Windows Live

At the bottom of the page there are links to previous years’ archives.

Free Icons for Web Applications

January 16th, 2009

free icons set, composed of 20 icons specifically designed for Web applications:

http://yensdesign.com/2009/01/webappers-free-web-application-icons-set/

100 Favorite Blogs from pc magazine

January 5th, 2009

http://www.pcmag.com/print_article2/0,1217,a%253D235252,00.asp

The trend continues as online docs get better and more useful

December 23rd, 2008

A pretty good overview of Google Docs, an online office suite by Googlehttp://www.labnol.org/internet/office/google-docs-guide-tutorial/4999/

Recovering data from the crashed Windows hard drive

September 16th, 2008

Howtogeek.com has a very informative post on recovering data from the crashed windows hard drive using the Ubuntu live cd. Instructions are very detailed and are very easy to follow. Although in the comments section people mention proven alternative things like freezing the hard drive, using other linux distros, and using Bart’s PE live cd, from careful reading into the post, it looks like this “Ubuntu method” may be a good, worth-to-consider, alternative to using Bart’s utilities mostly for the non-windows folk out there.

Essential Freeware for your PC

September 5th, 2008

Freewaremission.com posted a list of 51 Essential Programs For A Freeware Only PC. The “Essential” part in the title is quite subjective and has to do mostly with author’s personal preferences. If you’re figuring out what freeware alternatives exist to your own “essential” non-freeware bunch of programs, checking out the following links might prove useful:

  • Gizmo’s Best-ever Freeware
  • Neowin’s Freeware Alternative List
  • Extremely useful free utilities that do specific jobs really well and save time and money
  • Google Hacks

    September 3rd, 2008

    This post has 101 tips, tricks, and hacks on Google

    4 Online Handbooks for Web Designers & Developers

    August 26th, 2008

    This post lists 4 very useful resources for web designers and developers:

    Web Developer’s Handbook

    For Webdesigners 658 helpful links for webdesigners

    CorkDump (A customizable resource for designers & developers)

    AgencyTool (Webdesign Dashboard)